I don't care if anyone responds or not, I have to do this!
I started the FIRST discussion when Michael Jackson died!
And I have to end it! I watched the Memorial Service and it
was gut wrenching, at least to me! If you care to comment,
PLEASE DO SO! When I saw his beautiful daughter try to say
good-bye that was it for me! I thought some of the other
tributes made me choke up, but nowhere near when Paris grabbed
the microphone at the end...I loved Michael Jackson and I
don't care who on here knows it. This post is only for those
who have pleasant things to say, if you don't please don't bother!
Thank you, Opal!
[question posted by Opal26]
responses and comments:
yes, me too, Opal. when I heard his daughter saying goodbye to her dad, I was teary eyed. You can feel the love and the emptiness in this girl. I am still sad that Michael is gone, and I am always singing his song "Gone too Soon"... whew! I miss the man!sad [hornetlover]
Hi hornetlover, I watched the whole memorial and there was just so many things that made me cry! I grew up watching Michael with his brothers in the Jackson 5! I am 6 years older than Michael was and it is really difficult for me to deal with his death! I was a really big fan of his and will never forget him! I love all his music and it will live on always! May he rest in peace now... [Opal26]
Hi Opal, MJ was a lovely man and had soo much to offer to his fans musically as well as the charities he donated to and cared for. I never got to see the Memorial Service..is there a link that it is possible for me to catch it on? hugs LoLo [littleowl]
Hi littleowl, I hope you do get to see what a beautiful memorial it was. The whole tribute was just unbelieveable. I do hope you get to watch it. [Opal26]
I thought it was very sad when his daughter come to the microphone, I also found it endearing when the family tried to protect her. I hope she finds comfort and security in that family. *hugs* [ShellyB]
Actually today I was actually sad he died, it is weird but in being caught up with so many rumors one looses sight of the great person he was. I hope he is resting in peace and well, I hope his family finds peace soon too. [ShellyB]
I didn't watch it. I never watch memorial services for famous people, whether or I loved them or not. Because whether I liked them or not, they had family. And watching the family of the deceased is what bothers me. I save myself some tears and just hear about the memorials people have, I don't watch them. [AmbiePam]
Hi Ambie, I understand, I just if you feel that way it's ok. [Opal26]
Yes I watched it, I thought that it was really respectful. To me it was like paying respects to a close friend, I think I cried off an on all the way through it. Maybe now he is resting in peace. [sweetashoney]
Hi sweetashoney~ I felt that it was extremely tastefully done. And I felt like I was saying goodbye to a close friend too. [Opal26]
I was not a big MJ fan at all. I did like the Jackson 5 and even some of Michael's songs from earlier on. I watched the memorial today also and even though I was not a big fan of his it was very emotional and moving, some more moving that others but all in all it was really good and he would be proud. I really did like Brooke Shields comments, she did make Michael seem more human instead of an idol. I also like when Usher went down to the casket while singing. How in the world Michael's brother got up there and sang is beyond me too. It was really nice to see Michael's kids there today and I agree with you, Paris said volume's in so few words. I hope those kids can have a normal life and that the public will leave them alone. I did find one thing that I found to be very disrespectful today, Michael's dad. He should have taken his hat off. In my opinion I found that to be rude. [tyc415]
Hi tyc, I think you picked out some of what I thought were the most moving moments of the memorial service. I thought Brooke Shields did a beautiful job remembering her friend and Usher's song and his walking towards the casket was very moving too. And as for Paris, that just ripped my heart out~ [Opal26]
Hi there, and yes I did see some of the memorial on TV, and it was very moving one of the most moving moments is when michaels daughter spoke, and I have to say that anyone who wasn't touched by the loss of this amazing performer even just a little is just not human, becuse even if your not a hugh fan of his music this person was such a big part of pop culture and the history of music and a lot of people including myself grow up listening to his music and I think that his memorial was fitting for him and his fans, this loss will be felt by most for a long time. [apples99]
Hi apple, And that you for a beautiful response and tribute to one of the most wonderful performers of all times. [Opal26]
I was at work and a cheated. I watched the memorial at my desk on my computer. I thought it was beautifully put together. Every single bit of it was so lovely. When Paris spoke at the end that did it for me, I had to get some kleenex to wipe my eyes! It was like being at a friends memorial, it was very personal. [FFFrocks]
Thanks for your lovely response FFFrocks. I know that you took a big chance trying to watch at your computer at work and trying to hide your tears! If I was working that would have been me! [Opal26]
Hello Dear Opal Hugs and lots of them. Yes, this is it..goodbye to the King of Pop. I saw it too in bits and pieces through the day..so ticked off at all I had to do today and not able to watch it. Only caught some stuff online about it. Yes, I have good things to say..and I got my eye on the youngest of his..he looks like him quite a bit. Twas lovely what they did today for MJ and I feel the stars looked sad and tired also. It was incredible the pieces I saw of it. My heart was touched. Loved the song too that Stevie did..I had forgotten that song until I heard it again..brought back the memories of MJ singing so sweet as he did. Once again, no one can replace him in this world. He was unique and a natural star that was taken back to the place he came from... As someone said God needed him more than anyone here. Cheers Opal.. Have a good night now. xoxoox [OceanTiara]
Hi OT~ That song that Stevie did happens to be one of my very favorite Stevie Wonder songs and when he started it I really started to cry! Not that it took much at that point since I had already been crying on and off. I was a very big MJ fan and loved his music so much since I was a kid! I just hope that he is at peace now....Hugs to you, Opal [Opal26]
Hi Opal, Yes I loved Michael Jackson and I and yes I swa Paris watched the whole thing, I was well choked up too I did see Paris trying to say those words when she just couldn't say anymore, what a great Farewell to the King of Pop, but we will never forget him and the joy of his songs and his talent that he give us, it was very moving, so very sad. Thank you Opal for doing this discussion. Hugs. Tamara [tamarafireheart]
Thank you tamara for loving Michael and his songs too! I know that you will miss him and enjoy his music for many years to come. Hugs right back at ya, Opal [Opal26]
The world is definitely a much smaller place without Michael Jackson in it. He revolutionized music videos. He was such a humanitarian, donating so much to children's issues. I know he has issues, but who doesn't? That was his life to live it the way he wanted. He gave the world so much and asked for nothing in return, except maybe for a little privacy. I never believed he was guilty of those crimes he was accused of. I honestly don't think he could ever harm a child... ever! A true icon is gone and the world mourns. Just seeing everything being written and shown about him is a testament to the impact he's had on all of us. [mentalward]
They probably never took the time to see the good side of him, which was much better than most people! So what if he altered his appearance? It was his life, his body. He didn't selfishly spend all his money on himself! I remember hearing about that Pepsi commercial he was filming when something exploded behind him and caught his hair on fire. He won $1 million from that accident and donated every penny of it to charity. His Neverland Ranch was open to children with terminal illnesses so that they might enjoy a bit of time they had left. He really did give so much, well above and beyond what anyone putting him down has ever given, I'm sure! I'm glad that he's no longer in pain but I do miss him already. There's one song of his that I absolutely LOVE and it became my own personal theme song, one that I live by: "Man in the Mirror". He had one tour that he pretty much paid for himself, out of his own pocket because the special effects cost way more than what the ticket sales brought in. He said he did it because he wanted to give his fans what they wanted: a spectacular show. He definitely had something that no one has had before and I strongly doubt no one will ever have in the future. He truly was the King of Pop, but he was also so much more. [mentalward]
I thought I was! I was very moved by the tribute to MJ today. I don't think it was too much. I loved him too! Always enjoyed him and felt badly when he was so accused by people who wanted money. I think it was very well done today and I enjoyed it. I feel sorry for the kids and all who were greaving and being filmed. [celticeagle]
Hi celtic, I thought it was a beautifully done tribute to a man that gave the world so much of himself! My heart goes out to those 3 beautiful children that he left behind. I hope that they will be alright without him~ [Opal26]
HI Opal, I think MJ is the most misunderstood public figure, artist and parent in the history of the entertainment world. He has split personality and seemed to be a soft spoken person with a compassionate heart. He was one of the most talented singer that has rocked the world and has touched many hearts throughout his singing career. His name has become the household name in many countries. I would think many of the suits thrown against him was done out of jealousies as he was one of the richest pop singer that people took advantage of because of his closeness to children. He is gone now but his name will linger on for many many years to come. May his soul rest in peace. [zandi458]
Hi zandi, I believe that he was misunderstood in many ways. He was a very kind and generous man. It is a shame that people don't want to remember him for all the great things that he has done and prefer to believe what they think he might have done instead! [Opal26]
Hi Opal, My heart breaks for you right now. I know you loved him and that's all that matters. I'm glad you got to see the Memorial. You must be drained right now. My heart goes out to all that loved and lost him. You have every right to grieve and post your feelings. Take care my friend. Love leenie [leenie50]
Hi leenie, I did love Michael Jackson and I am not ashamed to admit it! I believe he was wronged and that caused him so much pain! I just hope that he is now at peace and that his children will be able to go on without him. [Opal26]
I was never a Michael Jackson fan but I was never really against him. I watched the whole memorial today and I was bawling starting with "You are the World" until Paris spoke. Since Brooke Shields had trouble holding it together I got a little choked up when she spoke. It was a wonderful ceremony with no loudspeaker announcements or interruptions (aside from the technical difficulties at the beginning). I didn't know who half the people were until I realized their names were on the screen at the bottom in the smalles print I could barely see it. I saw a movie that was made a few years ago on Michael Jackson which aired the Saturday after his death. The actor who played Michael did an amazing job. I really got a good look into the person MJ was and have nothing bad to say about him at all. RIP. [patgalca]
Hi pat, It was a truly wonderful tribute to a good man and that's what I believe! I believe that he was wronged by many and he did so many wonderful things in his life to help others, not hurt them. I just hope now that he is finally at peace~ [Opal26]
I love Michael Jackson(R.I.P.) every since I was a child.People need to stop looking at the negative and look towards the positive things that he has done.Michael Jackson has been thru enough now it's time to let him Rest In Peace. God Bless His Soul. [mmlove]
Hi mmlove, And welcome to mylot! Thank you for saying what I truly believe in my heart! Michael was a good man and deserved so much more then to be treated the way he was! I hope he is at peace now~ [Opal26]
goodbye Michael Jackson, we will miss you.. thank you for the songs you have made.!! it will be always remain in our hearts and mind.!! we will never never forget you... [janebeth]
Hi janebeth, Welcome to mylot! And thank you for being a part of my tribute to Michael Jackson! [Opal26]
I have heard of him a lot. Most of my friends loved him. I must say the sentence "His popularity crossed all boundaries". We must pray for his soul so that he can rest in piece. He did a great thing to the whole world. He used drugs as he wanted to sing for his kids who loved him a lot. He was more than a hero for his child. He was really great. [febinjohny]
RIP. You are always in my heart. [yaziwq]
Hi Opal! I didn't get a chance to watch the Memorial Service because I had to be out at the therapeutic riding center where I volunteer by 10:30 this morning. I didn't get home until about 12:30 or closer to 1:00. I would have liked to have seen it, though. I wonder if somebody will post it on youtube sometime in the future? I did get to see Paris say good-bye when I logged onto the internet. That just almost made me cry! It was very hard for her, I'm sure. Kathy. [cyrus123]
Hi cyrus, It has been on so many channels in bits and pieces. They replayed the whole service of "BET" (Black Entertainment Channel) where they had the Award Ceremony last week that I posted on. I watched the whole thing again with my boyfriend because he hadn't seem it this afternoon because he was at work. I also taped it. It was an amazing Memorial. I hope you get to see it. There were some beautiful tributes both musical and speaches. And yes, when Paris spoke that was gut wrenching and it broke my heart~ [Opal26]
I have to admit I watched part of the memorial of Michael today than I had to go about and do other things, I did sit and cry the whole time.. I really need to get my mind of it though... Just a bit ago I went ahead and watch the full show that was put on msn and still had tears in my eyes watching this.. So many people with so many different stories about Michael was very touching each song that was sung, was sung with emotion rather it was with a smile or a tear it was touching.. When I seen Paris tell the world she loved her daddy so much I cried so hard it was so touching to hear that... I know EXACTLY how that little girl feels.. Cause I lost mine as well.. Just seeing his children on that stage and standing there I can tell they are going to be just like their father Michael a Caring loving and a outstanding person... Thank you so much for starting this discussion and letting us express how we felt about this memorial.. R.I.P Michael [wisconsin26]
Hi wisconsin! And thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings and joining in my tribute discussion to Michael Jackson! I was a huge fan of his always and I will remain that way forever! I watched the entire Memorial this afternoon and then again on BET tonight with my boyfriend. I taped it too. It was heartwarming and heartbreaking at the same time. My heart hurts for the children now who have to find a way to live without their Father who they loved so much~ [Opal26]
Opal I had a migraine today so I did not watch TV at all. I am saddened that a another great artist died from an drug over dose. I feel it is senseless death that should not have happened. He was a genius and did have problems I wish he could have gotten help before he ended up like this. I did like his music and wish he was still alive. I feel sorry for his kids who not will have to live without a father and a mother. [teapotmommommerced]
Hi tea, Sorry about your migrane and hope you are feeling better now. My heart goes out to his children too. It was gut wrenching to see his daughter breakdown in tears saying how much she loved her Daddy. I hope the children will be able to have a happy life without him. [Opal26]
I love Michael Jacson,too!This day,when I heard the news that he is dead.I feel really so sad.He is my best love in my heart.His dance all the of are amazing!When I see his all the of MV and DVD .My heart was broken.It's so bitterly,but I can't do anything.Just keep watching about his everything and quietly tears...Goodbye ,my dear Michael Jackson!You will live always be in my heart! [Mj4ever]
My Dear friend: I'm glad to see your letter in reply.We will just remember him forever,right?You shouldn't too sad.Take good care of youself health. [Mj4ever]
Im gonna miss Michael Jackson.,, saying goodbye to your loved ones was the hardest part.. so sad. I wanted to cry... To all the people that still talks about why MJ died. plss..give him some peace and respect. [crippledcrossface]
Sweet I hope no one does write anything nasty here I was not a Fan MJ but he did do some good Music, I saw bits of it on the News this morning and it brought tears to my eyes, specially the bit with Paris and I can imagine that if I feel like this watching bits of it not being a Fan, how it would have hit People who are Fans like you What gets me right now is, the fight over the Children, and all else those Children have just lost their Dad, and MJ's Dad is fighting for everything, to what I see on the News, including the Children. They need to be in a loving environment right now, just loosing their Dad that they loved so much, not all the carry on. Rest in Peace Michael Jackson Hugs to you Sweetheart [gabs8513]
I'm here watching to make sure no one gets nasty, but just for in case I miss something ... Jeepers Creepers Make sure to sharpen your peepers [KrazyKlingon]
My Wife was watching the memorial but to be hinest, I was preoccupied with other things at the time. She was telling me about the speech his Daughter made and it does sound like it was an extremely emotional moment. Michael Jackson was a tour de force throughout my childhood and I'll always remember the release of the "Thriller" video clip especially! He was a troubled man, but a very talented one too and regardless of whether people love him or loathe him, he certainly left a lasting impression! RIP Michael Jackson. [James72]
Thank you for the kinds words James. It was gut wrenching to see his Daughter break down. There were alot of those moments, but that one was the most touching. I just hope that Michael is finally resting in peace~ [Opal26]
Thank you for starting this discussion Opal! From last night I couldn't stop my sobs..can't believe he's gone for real..when I heard Paris's speech, oh my tears, just couldn't stop it! I loved all the speaches and I loved Brooke Shields's speech the best! Ofcourse Ursher's song and the best song will be MJ's favourite 'Smile' sang by Jermaine Jackson. I Love You Michael Joseph Jackson!! May Your Soul R.I.P.!!! [candy2306]
Shall the world mourn for our great King of Pop! We all truly love him from the bottom of our heart.. [candy2306]
I too watched the memorial for "The Greatest Entertainer That Ever Lived" Michael Jackson. I cried from the beginning to the bitter end of the memorial. It was an emotional beautiful memorial that Michael so deserved. I to loved Michael since I was 13 teen years old when he was on the Ed Sullivan show for the first time when he was 11 years old. I understood everything that he did and why. I just got him. I never thought he was weird and it hurt so much that people would call him names and then accuse him of things that I know he was never capable of doing. It pains me that he never found true happiness in this world with all that he gave the world. This is what makes me cry more than anything. May he now rest in peace. [lelin1123]
Hi lelin, I so agree with everything that you said! He was misunderstood! I also grew up with him. I am a few years older than Michael was. I know in my heart that he was a kind and gentle and generous man and it is so sad the things that people did to him to hurt him so much. I just hope now too that he is finally resting in peace~ [Opal26]
It was really heart-wrenching to see beautiful Paris crying like that. I'm sure it was such a difficult speech for her but she was so brave to do that. I didn't manage to catch the memorial but watched snippets on the tube. Usher singing was awesome too.. [zed_k4]
There were twice repeat telecast in my country the day after the real broadcast. So, thrice in a row. It's a somber moment and something truly magnificent but in a sad way. Thanks for sharing this discussion, my friend.. [zed_k4]
I'm one of those that have nothing good to say and I am hard-headed too. So sit back, smoke up a Black and Mild and listen to my insane rant That was probably one of the best funerals I've ever seen in my life and the heart-felt song done by his eldest brother Jermain was really nice. Rev Al Sharpton brought up some valid points about Michael that was pretty good. This time it didn't feel as pretentious as the previous celebration shows. It may be because the casket was in their presence and the reality of MJ's death was prevalent. I watched for facial expressions of everyone with a fine tooth eyeball and there were a family member or two that didn't care if Mike passed on. (you know who I'm sreaking of...ahem...name rhymes with "ta-goy-a" As far as "this is it". I don't think so. Just like Elvis, Michael will be spotted and assumed to be alive somewhere in the world. [mrghill]
Heyya Opal! I did see that. And the VH1 tribute too. It was a very sad thing when little Paris took the mic. I was hearing that Mr. Prince was supposed to sing with Jackson on his up and coming tour. I bet it won't be long until we see him out there performing. Take care. [JenInTN]
hello Opal26, Good for you for you were able to watch the memorial. I just watched some in the news but it's much better if I was able to watch it. But then there will be a replay tonight at CNN. I will watch it for sure with my family for we are an avid fan of MJ - may he rest in peace. He may be out of sight but will stay in our hearts forever. He'll remain the living legend and the one and only king of pop. [robert19ph]
Oh i watched the whole Michael Jackson memorial service. Most of it made me shed tears but some made me laugh as they told some jokes. He may have passed away, but his title of 'King Of Pop' and his music will live on forever! [rickiely]
I think MJ was a very talented entertainer. I did not watch the memorial service I found some CSI shows I had not seen. I have seen some clips show his daughter and I find it very sad to see any child lose a parent. You do not have the authority to restrict which choice of discussions I may or may not respond to. Thank you. [whiteheather39]
I agree with you. I thought he was very handsome the way he looked naturally. But, that was a big part of his problem. He didn't see himself the way we did. And as I said, it isn't like me ever to stipulate who responds in my discussions. It was just emotions taking because of just finishing watching the Memorial. [Opal26]
I missed the whole thing, but I have read it was an emotional situation. There have been some material posted in the MyLot news, such as: http://www.mylot.com/w/newsarticle/21983937.aspx & http://www.mylot.com/w/newsarticle/21981884.aspx The loss of a parent is a horrible incident for the kids to go through, especially at that age. I went through this back in 2004. I also know people who have been through it, & at any age, it can take a toll on someone. Of all the people who attended, I would have thought that Diana Ross, a lifelong friend of his, would have been there. I can also understand it, because she would have been expected to sing, & from losing someone she considered a good friend, she would have had been too broken up to do a decent performance. [KrazyKlingon]
Another absentee was Liz Taylor. I believe it was because his death was too much for her. [KrazyKlingon]
Opal tsk tsk you know better then to tell people they are not welcome to say anything...rasp I will so somewhat what you have asked/demanded and just say this: I'm sorry that you were so touched my his death. [razcal2267]
Even with all my dang typos??? LOL Aw I'm honored *runs up and gives opal a bear hug* [razcal2267]
Thanks Michael for the music and for the legacy you left us! I 100% agree with Barry Gordy when he said that MJ is the Greatest entertainer that ever lived! I will add to that by saying..NO ONE even came close to what you have achieved! I have never met MJ but he has this tremendous effect on me that it seems that a have lost a brother. One thing that pains me is that MJ gave practically all his life to entertain us but seems that the world did not reciprocate that. Instead many made his life miserable and practically had a part to what happened to him. When someone becomes very popular, why do we have to pull him down? Now that MJ is gone, the only relief from this sadness of mine is thinking that now finally, MJ has found the peace he has been looking for all his life. Goodbye again MJ and may you now enjoy the eternal peace you have right now! You are trully one of a kind! The BEST! Cheers! [migsabe]
Thank you migsabe for saying what is in my heart too. I know that some people think I am being silly or too dramatic, but I was just such a big fan of his for so many reasons besides his music! He gave so much to world and as you said never got back anywhere near what he gave and he didn't deserve to be treated the way he was. [Opal26]
I've always liked MJ, opal. Even after all the nasty stuff about him came out, it didn't make me hate him. Today I was watching the news and when I saw Paris crying into the microphone, my heart went out to the kid.cry Just watching her, listening to her was enough to make my eyes tear up. Then a fan was interviewed outside the Staples Center and the guy said MJ's passing only made him appreciate the messages behind MJ's songs and I daresay, I agree. MJ is a legend. It's something no one and nothing can ever change. This brings to mind a line from one of his songs: "like a comet, blazing across the evening sky...gone too soon." MJ, indeed, passed on too soon.sad [crazyoverpurple]
Thank you crazyoverpurple for putting it so beautifully~ He is "gone too soon"~ [Opal26]
My heart is aching this day as his body returned to GOD. H e is my great idol in my life and I cannot hold on my tears to fall down. I really missed him so much , all things he shared to world those who are fans of music touched him so much. I know he can go away to heaven peacefully as he contributed good to everyone throug his music and deeds. I will pray for the repose of his soul in heaven. He passed bye here on Earth with almost all people admired him so much. I really touched when I can hear his songs. sadsadcry [geniustiger]
Hi geniustiger, And thank you for your kind words. I know that God has him now and is taking good care of him and letting him rest now and finally he is at peace within. [Opal26]
Im glad its over and I hope he can rest in peace and move on to the summerlands and when he is reborn be a more normal person. I hope his family and fans can move on and get over this. Hmmm that was nice right opal? I tried lol. [darkjedi1]
I loved his music too DJ and TBH it's a blessing not to have known him in person, it spares us more grief. This is the 2nd reference to summerlands I have seen... I must look it up. [Aliceinwebland]
I thought it was so sad, I cried several times. I remember growing up listening to Thriller and Michael was huge back then, always in the news and in commercials and stuff. His poor children, I feel so sad for them. I missed Paris speaking while it was live but have since seen it and it just broke my heart. [ZephyrSun]
Hi Zephyr, I saw it live and then again last night. I was a huge fan of MJ. It broke my heart when Paris started to cry as it did, I think everyone in the world~ [Opal26]
It was very moving to me as well. There were several tributes that when they were going on, you could feel the love and now the hurt that these people felt towards MJ (Brooke Sheilds and his brother are the first to come to mind). However, when Paris got up and spoke, it brok my heart. With all the other ones, you heard about who he was, but it was always "MJ" and to hear his daughter call him daddy, I think that is when a lot of people thought to themselves "Wow....he really was a human who was deeply loved and cared for". He will be greatly missed. [NIECIE21]
Hi Niecie, The tributes were unbelievably moving. I know that Brooke Shields was having a very difficult time with hers as were so many others. Usher started to cry at the end of his song too. When his sweet daughter Paris spoke and broke up I think the world realized that Michael was human and he was a Daddy to these 3 beautiful children who were now going to have to grow up without him~ [Opal26]
Hi Opal I was not a fan of Michael Jackson but did like some of his earlier music. I did not see the memorial service but saw his daughter on the news. I found that heart wrenching them poor children I can sympathise with them as my children lost their dad when they were similar ages to Michael's children. [littleone3]
i loved him too and as you said i do not care for anyone else's opinion about that. the ceremony was spectacular and i watched every minute as i recorded on my dvr because i had to work. it was beautifully done and so well organized. i know he would have been so happy to see that so many people still loved him and held him in the highest regard. he was a humanitarian and a kindhearted soul and i hope he now gets the chance to rest in peace as he did not get to here on this earth. i feel so sad for his children and his mother. no mother should have to bury her child. she is getting on in years and she has to leave this earth knowing her grandchildren really have no parents but i am sure his large and loving family will embrace them and love them as michael would have had he lived. [mikeysmom]
Hi mikeysmom and thank you for those beautiful words. As you said no Mother should have to lose a child. My Mother did too so it was something I am familiar with since my own brother died 23 years ago and has never gotten over it. He was my baby brother and my only sibling. I feel so badly for his beautiful children, but they have a large family to care for them who will love them and make sure that they are taken care of the way the know that their Father would have wanted them to be. [Opal26]
Hi Opal. Don't worry about who didn't love MJ. I think the whole world loved him - and those who didn't like him were a handful of parasites who were out to take advantage of his kindness and innocence. The worst of them all were certain Media stations who were out to ridicule him and insult him - especially one which is supposed to uphold true legal opinions but which portrayed more like the "Guilty Until Proven Innocent Show" hosted by this dis"Grace" woman who was on a witch-hunt during and after MJ's trial a few years ago. I was following this case daily - and still recall how this woman's mouth gape-opened (and she looked stupid) when the court delivered the verdict - "Not Guilty on All Counts"! MJ is close to my age and I grew up listening to his music and its evolution from days of "Ben" and "I'll be There" to "Thriller" and "Beat It" - and beyond. I truly wish had did not make certain mistakes about his health and looks which eventually took a toll on his life. Although many people did not realize how popular he was all around the world, it was at his death that it proved how much he was loved, respected and appreciated in all corners of the world. My mum, who now is 83, loved his music too - and my sister (who now is 48) won a singing competition when she was about 10 years old singing "Ben". Although he maybe gone physically from our world, his music will live on forever and will never be forgotten. There will never ever be another Michael Jackson - nor a performer of his caliber. He is certainly an icon in the music wold and his music will linger in the world of music always. [DEVONECO]
Hi Devoneco, And thank you for saying what I also feel is the truth! I also am grew up with Michael and am only a few years older than he was. I know that he is innocent of the charges, the boy even admitted that his family put made him do it for the money! People believed what they want to believe, but didn't realize what a generous man Michael Jackson was and how he gave without expecting anything in return. I just hope now that he is finally at peace. [Opal26]
thats the only thing I saw of it when his daughter was saying good bye and that was on the news. [Lakota12]
sadyou know when my hubby and i won the lottery, we were thinking of going to los angeles. but coming from a avid fan like him refused to do so because he knew it would hurt him even more to see in his coffin. a lot of people though it was a set up for a comeback. but no, there was no come back. We will remember him and his songs, we should all just move on. He's resting in peace now.cryhappy. [Mikaela_taz25]
Hi Mikaela~You actually won Tickets to go to the Staples Center for the Memorial and didn't go? Are you serious? [Opal26]
That was my favorite part of the Memorial. But I also wanted Prince and little blanket to talk too. But at the end made me cry so much. You could hear that she was serious about this. You could hear that she was in pain. So that was the most saddest part of the memorial. P.S I wish I could of been there. [lala501]
Hey lala~ I wish I could have been right there in that room too~ [Opal26]
You are bit lucky as you were able to watch the funeral of Michael Jackson. I too in sorrow as one of my family member has left. [jaisundar]
I love MJ's songs alot...he is one of my fans. Hope he can rest in peace. [shia88]
Oh , I had been to work all day long and i missed the entire memorial, I wish they would re-telecast it sometime during the weekends......whatever people say about him, but he is and will always be the king of pop for me, his moves like moon walk raised many eye-brows among dancers......his compositions like heal the world, and we are the world made the world cry and made them emotional, his numbers like black or white killed the discrimination........his numbers like blood on the dance floor made even the worst dancer tap his feet........that was the power of Micheal Jackson.........you still rule in our hearts and minds !!!! God bless your soul !!!!! [John4Christ]
Hey John~ You are so right! No one could ever keep still when hearing one of Michael's songs! He was the most amazing performer ever! He could make his body move in directions like no other! [Opal26]
Yes, I did watch the whole memorial service, and it was a great going home service for Michael, I grew up with Michael's music and dancing, I have tried all the dance steps. When Michael first passed, it was hard for me to look at it on the news (television), not out of disrespect but out of sadness, I don't take death too well, I had a son to pass at the age of 26. I have finally come to terms with the death and also the death of Michael and I can truly say that I watched the whole service and it was great. My first tears where shed when Brooke Shield spoke, and then again when his brother Jermaine song, the most heart felt cry was when his daughter Paris spoke. All in all it was a good memorial for him he was nicely put away. ""SMILE"..THOUGH YOUR HEART IS BREAKING. R.I.P. MICHAEL, you deserve it. [Chevee]
Hi Chevee, I watched the whole Memorial first live and then again last night. It was even sadder the second time because I saw things I didn't notice the first time. I agree that Brooke Shields speech and Jermaine's song were heartbreaking. I also loved Stevie Wonder's song and Usher's song tribute when he walked up to the casket and broke down at the end. But, when his beautiful daughter spoke and started to cry the whole world cried with her~ [Opal26]
I watched it also, and i think that it got to be more superficial. In fact, i somehow got the feeling that it was not a memorial anymore. At any rate, somehow i saw some sadness in the eyes of some people there, specially Brooke Shields. However, i saw some who seemed to be there for the performance instead of the occasion. Well, i just hope that there will be more of the people who would treat it and look at it as i do. I choose to remember Michael Jackson as the man alive with his music in our hearts, than Michael Jackson who was lying there in the coffin. I really think that what matters is really the memories, and that is what i am looking at. [safejunk]
MJ contributed something beautiful to this world. I don't know if the allegations against him were true, but if they were I think he didn't do it out of malicious reasons. He was so childlike he could hardly be held accountable. I think he always tried to be a good person, but he really needed someone to take care of him, instead of the whole world trying to take a piece of his pie. [glords]
It was so sad when his daughter started crying on the microphone and said, "he was the best daddy in the world." It was so cute :[ I really hope that they open Neverland to the public, that way they can get Michael out of his debt and give some money to his kids. Plus, millions of people would actually go to the ranch. I know I would :D They would probably make more money than they do at Graceland ! [jacksbg7]
Yues it was very Sad, I had to cry myself, it was so sad when she started to Cry, I know those Kids are going to miss their Father. [marciascott]
I watched the Whole Memorial Sevice it was quite touching, no one knows that he did all he did, He did a lot, I hope those kids don't go though hell! because in a way he left things a mees, but I think that God will take care of the Children He has did so much, and God will bless His Family and his Kids. I cried, it was like I really knew him, in a way I did, I grown up with his music. He will truly be missed. He is a Legend! and no one can take athat from him. There will never be another one like him, He was such a smart man. I really hope that Debbie Rolle will not get the Kids, She just wants money everyone knows that. Those Kids are scared for life. I know they have seen her on the T.V. and how people were talking about her bad. I think they will be alright with M.J. Mother, even though she is too old. maybe she can have some help with the Kids, I heard she has 26 member as Staff in her house, even the Nanny, if they would keep her in their life, It would be a good thing. Because she was with those kids most of their life. I just wonder who the other parent is of the other one? Ok, Have a good day, I just had to put in my 2 cents! Have a great day! [marciascott]
Hi marcia~I thought it was a beautiful tribute to an incredibly wonderful man! His children will be cared for by his entire family. Debbie Rowe will never get custody of his kids. They hardly even know her, and yes she is only after the money! [Opal26]
I like Michael Jackson, he has lived for ever in the memories of music lovers of the world. there no words which can compansate his absence, it is un-recoverable loss to the entire world. but watched him from a distance, but he was nearer to our heart. NO words can suit for explaining his loss. we can wish his soul,may rest in peace and our hearty condolances to all his near and dear. [pyarebhai]
I grew up listening to most of his songs I love some of his songs mostly ballads Someone in the dark, Farewell my summer love and One day in your life especially heal the world. I am introvert and I keep to myself a lot, so some of his ballads really fit how I felt and what happened in those years I was younger. What saddens me most is that I actually thought someday he would make a comeback and all those years he never performed, I thought he was just waiting for the right time to come back and make a great new album I couldn't watch the memorial I had an appointment and I couldn't bring myself to but today I decided that if something or someone has to go then they shall if I don't let them go I will be guilty holding him back from starting a new journey besides why would we keep him in this world? look at the way people treated him! No, he deserves the rest. I've replied to enough discussions about Michael Jackson. This will be my last. I'm tired of hateful comments. There is no talent like his. Nobody can perform his songs like he did. That is it. [LittleMel]
Hi LittleMel, Yes, Michael had some beautiful ballads and I loved them too. He had such a wide range of music for everyone! I happend to love everything he did! I know he was a wonderful man who gave so much of himself and was never truly appreciated and now the time has come for him to rest in peace~ [Opal26]
was it all day? how long was it? i didnt watch much tv yesterday because i had drama going on here. i really feel for his children. he seemed to be a very good dad. i think it was because of the sad childhood he had. being forced to work all the time and having no childhood. i can sympathise with him. although i did have a little bit more childhood than he did. i think thats why he wanted to have Neverland to try and recapture some. a lot of people just took things he did wrong and some were just jealous of his wonderful talent. my son has been upset by it ever since his death.cry [bunnybon7]
Hey bunny~ It was on from about 1:00PM until about 4:00PM Eastern and 10:00AM until 1:00PM Pacific. I watched it live Eastern time since I am in NY. I also watched it last night being replayed on BET and I taped it myself to. It was a beautiful Memorial Service. I was such a huge Michael Jackson fan, as I guess you can tell by the fact that I have started 3 discussions about him when I hardly ever start any! I grew up with him, even though I am older, but I always love his music since The Jackson 5. I have been so upset since I found out that he died. For some reason I have taken this rather personally. [Opal26]
Hello Opal26, Yes I did watch the memorial for Michael Jackson. There were three of us watching it on the television. I could see most in the room wipe tears away especially when his daughter spoke. I think that did it for my b/f because he was orphaned before he became a teenage and he knows the pain of losing a parent since he lost both of his parents.Since my b/f and I do an online music broadcast we combined and dedicated our three hours to music by Michael Jackson only and nothing else. [ds6413]
Hi ds6413, I watched the Memorial live and then again last night with my boyfriend on BET where they replayed the entire service. I also taped it. That was so great of you to dedicated 3 hours to music of Michael Jackson! I wish I could have been able to listen to it! [Opal26]
I agree with you when I saw Paris last night it made me tear up too. I did not know that I would be so affected. He must have been a wonderful father to his children. My daughter said that she cried when she saw it. He was the most brilliant performer that we have seen. May his soul rest in peace. May he find the love and peace in God that he did not find on this earth. May our God love and protect his children too. [cynthiann]
Hi cynthiann~ It was one of the most moving Memorial tributes I have ever seen. I am very familiar with all the performers and it was amazing. I watched the whole service and cried and cried. But, the speech by Paris was the most gut wrenching of all and I think everyone everywhere in the world who saw it finally realized that Michael Jackson was truly a wonderful man and a human being and a wonderful Father~ May the Lord Bless him and keep him and May He Rest In Eternal Peace~ [Opal26]
I listen to th Michale Jackson Memeorial, on the radio, and your right it would have made you cry, I cried doing most of ther service, Michael Jackson was a wonderful proformer, and there will no one, on earth who will be able, to top him thou they may try, they are not going to come even close, to the work that Michael Jackson have done, somone on here posted, about Michael Jackson staging his death, that person is very sick, to post something like that, that are some sick people who hated Michael Jackson.sadsadsad [notlistening2]
Hi notlistening! It was a wonderful Memorial service and it made me cry both times that I watched it. I also taped. No one can or will ever be able to take his place. And I saw the comment about him staging his death and just ignored it! He is now resting in peace and no one will ever be able to hurt him again! [Opal26]
yup!totally agree with you..i think i had shed lot's of tear throughout the M.J memorial service but Paris's speech broke me down big time..little word but very meaningful!also touched with the Brooke shield's speech and when Jermaine sang the Smile song that mentioned by Brooke as Michael fave song!very touching indeed!i just hope there won't be any story about Michael anymore,because it's really hurt to grab the fact that M.J indeed dead and gone! [fasyahime]
Thank you for your kind words fasyahime! I hope too that they will stop saying negative things and let Michael rest in peace and let his family, especially his children heal~ [Opal26]
Hiya Opal I have to admit I didn't watch the memorial, though they still have links and will for a long time so one can watch it, which I might do. I did catch a few of the highlights though, and yes especially Paris's tearful words. I really don't think this is going to be truly the last though we hear about MJ...the official cause of death and toxicity/autopsy reports haven't come in yet...I would like to see the doctors who in effect enabled him and kept giving him medications like candy be strung up by their Balls as they in effect murdered him. One thing that really puzzles me is supposedly so many KNEW about his addictions to meds...why didn't they do something THEN like force him into a rehab? I hate how people are profiting from his death though---at eBay people are selling the tickets for the memorial for about $5,000 and the program that went with the service is going for over $600--how tacky is that?thumbdown [pyewacket]
Hey pye, Unfortunately even though many people knew of his addictions and the doctors "helped" and may now be held responsible for his death no one can make someone stop taking drugs if they don't want to. Especially someone with money! There is always someone who is willing to give them what they want for a price! And as for people profiting from his death, it is disgusting, but typical nontheless! I just hope that his children don't suffer more than they have too. [Opal26]
It was hard to hear of his death, we all grew up listening to MJ and loved his music. I can't believe he is gone. He was such a tremendous person and did so many good things for lots of children and lots of charities. He was such a caring soul and had great convictions. I never once believed any of the bad allegations about him. I fell so sorry about all he went through durring the last few years of his life. I hope he is at rest now. Just don't know how the worlds going to make it without him. [TexasBrunette]
Isn't that the usual way of things, Tex? The negative forces in the world always seek to discredit anyone who brings a message of love and light to this world. MJ suffered the burden, but his living was not in vain. [worldwise1]
That was a sad moment. You never want to see a child have to permanently say bye to their dad no matter what you think of their dad. And as for me i dont care what was said about him he was a good musician. [minnie_98214]
Hi minnie, I believe that he was innocent and that he was a good and kind, generous caring man and didn't deserve to be treated the way he was. I hope that his children will be able to get on without him even though it will be very difficult for them. His music will live on forever~ [Opal26]
Opal you too sweet and funny LOL I watched the memorial while juggling work and trust me, work chose to be very busy on that day! Boo.. nonetheless it was a beautiful ceremony and I have to say that those who stood out for me were Stevie Wonder, Brooke Shields, Usher and of course little Paris. R.I.P. Michael and thank you for the times.Take care Opal [trinee]
Hi trinee! I was a huge Michael Jackson fan! I grew up watching him! I am just a little bit older than him. His death hit me hard. I lost my only brother at the 32. You picked my favorite parts of the Memorial. I actually saw it twice and taped it. I cried alot. I only hope that his children will be able to go on without him. It broke my heart to watch Paris, as it did the whole world who saw how much she truly loved her Daddy. And now at least Michael is a peace~ [Opal26]
The memorial service was one of the best I've ever witnessed, Opal, and I have not cried so much for a long time. My tears were not all about sadness so much as about the dignity and love of the event. The elite(people who could see into Michael's heart), were not at all surprised to see such an outpouring of love for fallen star. Someone had the audacity to say to me that little Paris's comments were rehearsed! To me it was the highlight of the event, and about as spontaneous as it could be. I really loved Michael like he was a member of my family, and as sorry as I am to know that he is gone, I can't help but be relieved that he will no longer have to suffer the injustices that were done to him.cry [worldwise1]
Hi worldwise~I must say that I have to echo your sentiments totally. I feel that the outpouring of love was real and came from the hearts of all those who truly love Michael Jackson for his talents and the good things he did for others. And only hope that his children will be able to withstand the pain and move on with their lives. I am also unfortunately agreeing with you that he is probably in a better place and no longer suffering the pain any longer~ [Opal26]
hiya Opal I watched the memorial too hon and it was quite upsetting. I have some personal upset at the moment, so it's a sad time for me, but time is a great healer and we will all get over our grief. I cried a wee bit when I saw Paris burst into tears but it was good to see her aunty Janet hug her so close and tight. Micheal's brothers wearing the single white glove was a perfect tribute to him. I can't say that I love Micheal as I didn't know him personally, but his music was brilliant and will live on in the hearts of his fans forever. hugs* Alice [Aliceinwebland]
Thanx Opal I will message you [Aliceinwebland]
Im with you on this. Its so sad. His whole life was. Starting with the abusive dad. His family making fun of his nose. The ludicrist charges against him. Which i never believed. Is it any wonder he was depressed and taking drugs and all the surgery. Then the enablers around him. And the body guards keeping his well intentioned family away from him. They cared now for him but their high paying jobs. I think in life he was very misunderstood. I never knew he had vitergo (however its spelled). Or Lupus, whatever that is. Poor guy. I hope he rest in peace till the resurrection. I know we will see him again then. All the back stabber and enablers and liars will be gone then. [jdyrj777]
Thanks. The media always over induldges in whatever the current news in anything. Untill the next event comes up. Then they over induldge it that. Its like they have too much time and not enough news. Quite frankly im sick of hearing about Obama and the wars. But i turn the channel. With cable there are so many channels to chose from. We can watch whatever we want. All these complainers can do the same. Personally i wannt to hear about Micheal. I want all the details. But they repeat everything and add to so when they start repeating i turn the channel and check back later for further developments. [jdyrj777]
Hi Opal, I can well perceive your state of mind at that moment. This is the end and MJ really received a well deserved funeral. Good bye and adieu MJ. If there is after life thing might be see you there. [krajibg]
I watched it and it made me cry, RIP Michael you were loved and your music was brilliant...your dancing was the best in the world [amanda333]
I watched the memorial service to until it ended. It was sad and I cried when his daughter got up their and started talking. She said I miss you and love you daddy and I broke down. My heart was breaking over that little girl missing her dad. I wished he didn't die. Its going to be so hard on his kids. He loved his kids so much and anyone in the world could see that. [strawberrybaby39]
I agree with you very much. I know he misses his kids. And its very sad he left this earth so early. He wasn't that old. He still had many years left. So many people say those kids weren't his or he didn't have them to a women. But in my eyes know matter what those kids are his and they all loved each other anyone could see that. It bothered me when people where saying bad things about him. People don't know how to keep their nose out of it. Like others that don't talk don't have problems of their own to deal with. I thought Michael Jackson was a great person and his kids are beautiful. [strawberrybaby39]
Well opal.....it's okay to like MJ....and it's okay to say goodbye with tears in your eyes....he wasn't my most favorite...though I did think highly of him and his artistry! But when Elvis died I felt the same way! It's okay! [jillhill]
Thanks Jill~ His death really hit me hard for alot of reasons. And it really bothers me the way that now they are trying to still trash him even in death. I wish they would stop so that his children didn't have to hear these terrible things about their dad~ [Opal26]
I have actually watch the Memorial Live around 12 am here in the Philippines..so, sad but so happy as well because people know him and his music. i think that's fairly enough to know that he didn't die for nothing. He is surely happy in heaven now. [LetranKnight25]
Hi Letran~I do hope he is finally happy now, at least resting in peace~ [Opal26]
yes I am also sad that he is gone. But like you said his daughters speeches was really heart touching. she really loved her dad no matter what people had to say about it. Honestly speaking I too feel Michael Jackson was abused by people due to the fame her gained. People knew about him and his dad. they knew their bond was not strong and Michael loved kids. He was weak and had a soft heart for children and this was made us of as his weakness. May god bless his soul and punish those who tarnished him someday. The truth will come out someday. [schoenmaker143]
Hi schoenmaker~ people did know alot about Michael Jackson, but still they made fun of him even though he did so much for so many! He was good and kind and generous man and he did love children and not in the way they protrayed him! And more than anything he loved his own children and they loved him and miss him as Paris, his daughter said in her Memorial speech. I just pray that his 3 sweet children will be able to live their lives in peace and grow up to be happy and healthy and well adjusted because they had the love of their dad! [Opal26]
yeah I too say goodbye to him. I guess he was someone who achieve fame in short period of time. Not only that, the stories created on him was due to the fame and people wanting to make money out of it. People knew Michael did not have a good childhood with his dad. He loved kids and that was his weakness and what he could get he wanted to give to other children. people took advantage of the situation to tarnish his name and reputation, to make money out if. May god bless his soul and have no mercy for those who brought him pain and shame. [schoenmaker143]